I linked that article by Ben Stein in my last post because he had some good thoughts about what is really important in life, and who our true heroes are. Today I had a conversation in the barbershop that was even more compelling.
First of all, please remember that this is the very same place where I was recently asked if I wanted my hair cut "too short." There are a lot of people of various nationalities there, and it's often difficult to even describe how I want my haircut. So you can see why I usually don't end up having in-depth discussions with the people who cut my hair--it's just difficult to do.
But today was different. The lady cutting my hair spoke English fluently, but she had an interesting accent that I've never heard. I asked where she was from, and she said Germany. I thought that it sounded a bit German, but there was something else in there as well. Once I got her going she told me about the college town where she lived, and we talked about how beautiful Germany is and how nice the people are. Apparently, though, it was very difficult for her family to find work there since none of them had gone to German schools. Eventually, she said, they moved to the US because they already had family living in the LA area.
Stay with me here, because this is where it gets interesting. She eventually explained that they had been living in Germany because her family was in exile from Iran. They are all Christian Armenians, so when the Islamic Militants took over in 1979 things were getting really bad. She said that bombs were going off everywhere around her house, and they just never knew what was going to happen. They couldn't sell the house, so they had to just leave it with a friend who eventually sold it for a pittance. And apparently they needed to get out before their son turned 14 or the new government just wouldn't let him leave the country.
Since they couldn't really work in Germany, they basically came here with nothing. With a flash of regret in her eyes she described how beautiful her old house in Iran was, and how good her life was before the revolution. But she mentioned it only briefly and changed the subject. Then she proudly explained how her son just graduated from dental school and her daughter recently finished an accounting degree. It was worth it, she says, because they got a good education and can have a good life.
The great thing about America is that if we step back just a few generations in any family we see that everyone shares this same story. It is one of leaving a troubled life behind with the hopes of finding a better one somewhere new. It's the story of families doing what they must to survive in a world that does everything possible to strip them of their pride, their human dignity, and their freedom. And ultimately, it's a story of parents struggling so that their children and grandchildren can achieve a dream that they themselves could never see.
God bless all of those who brought us here, and who continue to make this country great.
-chc